So in my previous blog (click here if you missed it) I thought a lot about weather to tell my GF about my blog.
I decided to tell her. I don’t want to be suspicious around her, and I have to say, it made me feel good. I feel kind of free. I don’t have to wait until she goes to bed to post something new, and I don’t have to go to the toilet every 30 minutes to answer on some comments.
She has no interests in reading my blog, she just wanted to know what I was writing about, so I told her my ‘categories’. I’ll have to take her word for it, but I think I can trust her.
I have no idea what this will do to my future posts about me and her, because I’ll always be cautious now that she knows. Even though this may effect my therapeutic reasons for this blog, it feels like a big step towards being a better person.
I have enough messed up shit to tell you from my past, so I don’t think writing ‘brutally honest, and slightly shocking’ content won’t be a problem.
Thank you for all your comments in my previous post. It helped a lot!
I told you she’d understand! 🙂 glad that it went well 🙂
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Good for you!
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I wonder if her earlier curiosity was because she knew/sensed that you were hiding something?
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I don’t know. I’ll find out later on I guess, if she decides not to check my blog.
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I hope it goes well later on, us women get really worried/possibly jealous, etc. but I think it’s a great you told her. You don’t sound really like a bad person… we all have bad in us, the important thing is if we’re trying. You’re obviously trying, and that’s wonderful.
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Thanks for saying that, but I did so much shit in my life that I could consider myself a bad person. I think I’m making progress though!
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I’ve read you’re past posts… I’m so sorry. Anyone can change though… it’s hard but it’s always possible.
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Great job! Way to take the high road:)
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That’s awesome! You feel good, she now knows what you’re doing now, but doesn’t want to read it! It’s a win win for everyone!
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It sure is! Unless she ends up reading it haha.
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Congratulations! It wasnt so bad, was it?! I’m impressed and pleased that you grabbed the bull by the horns and told her. Good job! That’s what good men do – disclose.
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No it wasn’t bad! I think it was a good decision!
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